Level of Stress in Parents of the Mentally Retarded Children
Abstract:
Parenting is a challenging
process. The crucial role of parents and family in caring, nurturing,
protecting and socializing young children is well established across the
cultures. Strong parent-child connectedness improves child academic outcomes,
self esteem, mental health and has later protective effects of reducing the
likelihood of alcohol and drug use in adolescence, high risk sexual behaviour
and involvements in interpersonal violence (Lezin et al., 2004). Parenting can
influence children’s social, emotional, and academic adjustment, efforts have
been made to determine factors that affect parenting behavior. One such factor
is parenting stress. Parenting stress can be defined as excess anxiety and
tension specifically related to the role of a parent and to parent-child
interactions (Abidin, 1995). When the parents learn that the child is having
some form of disability, it causes enormous distress to them. Giving birth to a
mentally challenged children or other disabled child is an unexpected stressful
event which affects the whole family. Such an event may impair family
development and may continue over time affecting the entire family system. The
presence of a mentally challenged child in the family has far reaching
implication for the family as a whole. The impact of the disability and problem
associated with it are not restricted to the child but extend far beyond the
child and affects a number of areas of family functioning as well as
individual’s adjustment. Parents go through intense emotional and psychological
stress and may have fewer resources of emotional gratification. They may
consider mentally handicapped child as a threat to their self esteem and view
themselves as a source of disability. They struggle to cope with the financial
costs, parents also are confronted with new and unexpected experiences. Parents
with disabled child may have higher levels of stress and lower levels of well
being than with the normal children (Rangaswamy and Bhavani, 2008). In order to
have better understanding of the factors that influence parenting stress which
plays a crucial role in development of child both normal and challenged, the
present study was undertaken with the objective to compare the level of stress
among parents between normal and mentally challenged children